Faith in the Future

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I have always had an amazing relationship. We know we work well together and we always talk about our future together. We’ve been together for 2 years now, and about a month ago I found out he cheated on me a few months back. I broke up with him and did not speak to him for over 2 weeks, but he BEGGED and BEGGED to speak to me… [read more]

Growing in Love

Dear Miss U,
I met him on holiday and we got along really well. I live in England and he lives in Canada. He says he really wants to be with me and I really feel the same. We can’t see each other until next summer; we are going to backpack for a week. I’m missing him already and it’s been a couple of days. Can I keep at this? Book this holiday and keep messaging/calling/writing letters until then? [read more]

Pressure-less Progress

Dear Miss U,
Our situation is different. We met on vacation and kissed. But there was so much chemistry and so many sparks. It wasn’t just a fling for either of us. I know it sounds stupid, but I want this to work. And I want to bring up face timing, or Skyping or even just calling. But I don’t know how and I don’t know if it would be too much. What do you think? And how should I bring it up?? [read more]

More Than Messages

Dear Miss U,
I went to his city to go meet him a year and a half into our relationship but at the last minute he cancelled and told me his mom wouldn’t let him (he didn’t have a car). I find myself getting sick and tired of seeing my phone screen; it often gets boring. He says he will come prom day and when I graduate, but it’s a long ways away and I don’t know if I should wait anymore… [read more]

Control Thyself

Dear Miss U,
I definitely have trust issues and I cannot go a day without talking about his ex. I also feel like he has changed and doesn’t care like he used to do before. He says he hasn’t changed and I should try to understand him. Both of us have met each other’s family and they approve. In 1 year he’ll be going to England to continue his studies. And I’m afraid that he’ll find better although he keeps reassuring me that he loves me… [read more]

Is This Real? Is It Over?

Dear Miss U,
We spent a few days together and he gave me a promise ring and confessed his love for me. But when we met we went behind our parents’ backs and got caught a few weeks after. Now his parents have my number on a watchlist so they can see what/when we talk and he’s not allowed to see me because they said, even though he is moved out and 18… [read more]

Make or Break?

Dear Miss U,
We have a 7 hour time difference. She works during the day but I don’t. I stay awake until 6am to talk to her because she seems sad when I leave but when it comes to her, she sleeps her time at 10 pm, like lol? Should I cut the shit and leave her? Because I am tired of putting much more but always end up heartbroken… [read more]