Where’s The Love?

Dear Miss U,
This is the 2nd time that I find myself in a LDR, and it seems that I am going the same way as the last one… He came to visit me 1 month ago during a week but we were both very tense and had painful conversations, so didn’t enjoy it a lot… Now, I am again drifting away from my LDR. I know he’s still a great person, but I just don’t think as much about talking to him… [read more]

When It’s Time To Go

Dear Miss U,
I have been with my bf for 18 months but have known him as a friend for 10+yrs. We live about 5hrs away from each other, we talk every day and get on a great majority of the time. Like most, the distance is difficult for us both but when I do see him it’s really good. However, it’s getting to the stage where we want to be together full time. I have said I’ll move as he has a son with his ex whom he has regular contact with. But when I bring up moving, he acts evasive and goes on about it being very complicated… [read more]

Somewhere Over The Rainbow

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I are a pair like no other. We have so much in common, it’s unreal! I’m gay, he’s gay (obviously). I’m androgynous, he’s a transman. We have a lot of the same interests, and our love is really strong. We were best friends before we started dating, and it got to the point where us being boyfriends felt natural. And, while I have no doubts that anything is gonna come between us, I kind of worry that one day the spark is gonna wear off… [read more]

Intimate Beginnings

Dear Miss U,
I met this awesome guy online for 3 months now. I live in Manila and he is from Rome. We are in our middle thirties and has expressed our feelings to one another though we don’t label ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend yet. He is very vocal that he wants to make love with me online (you know guys have a higher percentage of sex drive versus girls). Of course, I said that I cannot do that. I never had any relationship and sex prior to this and I am really not into this kind of thing… [read more]

Running Blindly into the Dark

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I became exclusive recently… Day to day though I find myself having doubts how much he truly wants me. He has been a bad texter from the start and ever since mentioning it he has gotten a little better. He is really sweet with his texts, but there is a lack of them. I know he isn’t busy… [read more]

Leave Me Alone, I’m Lonely.

Dear Miss U,
This question is rather from my girlfriend but I will be the one asking. We were never physically with each other as a couple for more than 4 days. Our relationship started right before we parted to study in different colleges, literally, because I confessed the day before her flight date. Our first reunion was fall break where we met for 4 days. That was when we were actually together as a couple for the first time. We had a great time until a problem arose on the 4th day… [read more]

Worried Unto Death

Dear Miss U,
I met someone who was visiting my city (Vancouver), yet was going back home to NJ at the end of the week. To make a long story short we had the most wonderful week together. Instead of staying at his hotel, he ended up staying with me each night… [read more]

No Fun!

Dear Miss U,
My partner and I have been together a little bit less than two years. We meet online and haven’t been able to meet in person yet because he lives in Australia and I live in America and finding the time and money to take that kind of trip is a struggle for both of us. Until recently we seemed so connected and happy. But it seems that we are losing that bond and connection… [read more]

A Measure Of Success

Dear Miss U,
I am not new to the long distance relationships but my previous one didn’t work out but mostly I ended it because I felt we didn’t connect. With this guy, he’s an awesome person and I feel very close to him emotionally and physically. He’s in the same state, couple hours away. What bothers me the most besides, obviously the distance, is that he doesn’t have a stable job, isn’t looking for one, because he is pursuing his career as an artist, which obviously could take time… [read more]

Maybe Baby

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and are Italian. 88 km separate us but we see each other one or two times in a month (at the beginning of the relationship one time in two months). Next week I will go to visit him and then we will know if I’m pregnant (Yes, maybe I’m waiting for a baby, but we are not sure yet). Even if I am only 17 years old I’m a little happy. He will take his responsibility and he will live with me. He isn’t only my boyfriend, he is also my best friend… [read more]