Having Sext?

Dear Miss U,
…We use to spend a lot of time on the phone between meetings. Since I came back to Ontario a month ago, something has changed and I can’t figure it out. I’m insecure and can’t get past it. We have made so many incredible memories together. He says he cares and we’ll figure it out. But his disappearing without any kind of peace of mind. Makes me worry. I’ve even crossed the line and opened a fake Facebook account and he bit! … [read more]

You’re Not Wrong

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over 3 years now but we have been long distance for a little over 2 years. In other words, we have been a long distance couple for most of our relationship. I moved to the US for school and my boyfriend, who is back home, is now done with college, but I have two more years left in undergrad. We do plan to get married but other than being too young by our country’s traditions, there are factors against us such as finances and school for me. The long distance relationship is getting really hard for us both, and I just want us to get married so he can legally move to live with me while I am in school… [read more]

Under-Qualified

Dear Miss U,
I matched with a guy on an app while he was in town. We didn’t get to meet up but we exchanged numbers and have been talking almost every day since. We quickly got to know each other and made plans for me to visit since he can’t visit me (financial issues)… The reason I haven’t visited him yet is because I don’t like how I look. I’ve been working on my fitness but I’m not where I’d like to be. I hope to be ready by the end of the year. I’ll visit him only when I feel comfortable. I haven’t told him this… [read more]

Roiling Emotions

Dear Miss U,
We only see each other one weekend a month which is really really hard for me and it’s amazing when we’re together. But why am I always the one to cry when he leaves? [read more]

Simple Solutions

Dear Miss U,
I’ve been dating this guy from Mexico for almost a year now. It was going great but I ended it because I felt as if I put more effort into the relationship and now he wants a second chance to show me he will do anything possible for me. I really want to get back with him but I’m afraid that everything will be the same again… [read more]

Crazy Advice

Dear Miss U,
I met this guy on the internet because we had things in common and I wanted to send him a message. The first thing I did was trying to know if he was a f***** psycho or not. He isn’t. So… We’ve been talking for a few weeks, and we have so much in common. We think the same way and we both go really fast if there’s feeling. I like him and he likes me. I want to take the next step, but he doesn’t because maybe we won’t see each other until next year due to exams and family problems… [read more]

After Infidelity

Dear Miss U,
I’ve been in a LDR for almost 4 years. We’ve been madly in love and everything was fine till the day he cheated on me. When I learned about it, I wanted to break up with him, but he begged me not to do so and said that it was a mistake because he was drunk and he reassured me that he’ll change for the better… [read more]

A Matter of Opinion

Dear Miss U,
I’ve been questioning my relationship lately as it is still very new. We started dating just a few weeks ago and clicked so quickly and with so much intensity that it’s still scary to think about! I am in love with him and I’m planning a trip in two months to go see him but I keep having these nagging doubts in my brain. Is this right? Should I be doing this? Do I really love him? Will he still love me when he sees me? [read more]

A Pinch of TLC

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend is amazing, and we’ve been in an LDR for a little while now. I think it hits me a lot harder than it hits him. I experience major depression, especially after visits. And generally need a bit more attention than he does. Which is fine, but I think this results in me wanting to do more LDR-like activities. Like letter writing, planning out things together via lists, sweet emails, watching TV together, just things like that. They make me feel closer to him, but that’s because for me, I’m feeling pretty down and have that need to feel closer to him than he does to me I believe… [read more]

Now or Never

Dear Miss U,
I am from Romania and I have been dating a guy from the USA for more than 3 years. Every time we were together everything was perfect and we were very happy together. But when we were separated we were very sad and lonely. We are both divorced, he has 3 daughters of which the youngest is 21. I have 2 boys of 10 and 14 years old. He said at the beginning that we need time to get to know each other better and grow our relationship, then after a year, he told me he needs to know if he gets along with my boys, then after 2 years we still have to grow our relationship and so on. It has been already more than 3 years… [read more]