Excessive Pornography

Dear Miss U,

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years later this month. He moved in with me at the beginning of last year, so has been living at our place for 1.8 years… the first year was fine we lived together. I started working away for 2 weeks home for 1 at the beginning of this year…

No Pity

Dear Miss U,

I am a 16 year old girl who recently moved to Perth, Australia from England. We’ve been here for nearly 3 months. It wasn’t a choice I was happy with. I moved with my family and we moved because my parents found better jobs here. Everyone seems to be happy with the move except me…

Pushing For More

Dear Miss U,

I live in Australia and my (now ex) lives in Pakistan. I first knew that he liked me back in 2010 when I went overseas, I tried finding him on Facebook after a year when I returned…

Love Waits

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months since February 1, 2014, we met online, and we already met 4 times personally.

I am a single mom, I have a 2 year old daughter…

Questionable Behavior

Dear Miss U,

I have had a great couple years with my bf who lives roughly 8,000 miles away in New Zealand while I live in Michigan. His personality suits mine to a “T” and he has always been there for me but recently co-workers I have talked to have stirred my always growing worry…

Holding Off

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend is about to go into boot camp for the US marines in September. We’re in a very committed relationship, despite how young we are. However, despite how committed I am, he wants to start a family, get married, and have me make all these crazy life changes…

The Beginning Of The End

Dear Miss U,
A year before last, I contacted and eventually met my college girlfriend after 30 years. She and I have families now and spouses. We have seen each other off and on talked about where our lives have gone after 30+ years. She and I have ‘hung out,’ so to speak, gone to a movie, had lunches, and just talked. I made plain that I was not after her for sex, not my intention. Just wanted to be friends and see her from time to time. I still love her and would love to finish out my life with her, I know that won’t be possible, although she had said to me to stay healthy… [read more]

Worst Case Scenario

Dear Miss U,

I’m currently in a relationship with some who is currently incarcerated. We found each other while I was doing 45 days at the county jail. We started out as pen pals and when we first saw each other it was like love at first sight…

Direct Communication

Dear Miss U,

So this guy and I aren’t officially dating, but he calls me his internet girlfriend and always jokes about us being together. We used to talk all day every day for a couple months. It has died down to maybe once a week or less…

Words Are Wind

Dear Miss U,

I’m currently in Texas and I moved from California. I have been talking to a guy from California for about 6 months now. We are happy, we both like each other and care for one another. He has gotten out of a 3 year relationship 2 months before we started talking…