Dear Miss U,
I’ve been together with my LDR boyfriend for almost 9 months now and these past few weeks, he’s always not in the ‘mood to call.’ He used to take every opportunity to try and talk to me, call me, or spend time with me, but nowadays he just spends time with his games and friends. Yes, I know they’re important to him but we barely talk to each other now and whenever I ask if we can call, he would sometimes get pissed and say that I’m too clingy and that we can’t call every day. It really makes me feel lonely as he doesn’t make time for me anymore… [read more]
How to Stop Fighting
Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I started dating when we were juniors in high school. We were an hour apart when college started for both of us. This past June, he moved 5 hours away for school, and communication, trust, and everything seems to be breaking at the seams. We get so mad at each other and we don’t talk for days till the other apologizes… [read more]
Mystery Girl
Dear Miss U,
My sweetheart, (we’ll call “B”), after 6 months and one canceled meeting, by her, still won’t tell me her last name, her address, or her workplace. She knows mine. I’ve never given her a reason to believe I would stalk her or bother her. We have emailed, chatted, and used video chat. Except she won’t provide an image. Says she has no camera. She has a phone. Also, she never answers her phone when I call…[read more]
Talking Less
Dear Miss You,
…He said that if I had intercourse with someone else he would be ok with it until I start falling in love with that person. He also said if he did it, he didn’t mean it, and it would be a one-time thing because we are apart and he misses the physical stuff. I have told him I’m not ok with that because I understand distance is a barrier, and we are still together, but he said he wouldn’t be mad at me for doing it and I shouldn’t be either… [read more]
The Art of Conversation
Dear Miss U,
Hello! I am in a LDR and I don’t know what to do in order to keep the flame burning. I don’t want him to get bored. It’s hard because we seldom see each other. So we talk very much and that’s why I’m afraid he gets bored. What should I do to keep his interest in me? [read more]
When he says “nothing’s wrong” but you feel like everything is.
Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend moved out to California, and for the first six months everything was fine. But recently I have felt so lonely and isolated. He seems to only call when he is walking home. We haven’t had a date in months and haven’t Skyped either. I love him and I had planned to move out in a year and a half, but I feel like we have lost our passion. When we talk, the conversation is boring and dragging. I can’t seem to make him understand or be more active in our relationship… [read more]
What To Do When He Chooses Family Over You.
Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I see each other 3 weeks in the winter and 2 months during the summer. We make a huge effort to visit each other as much as we can, but our colleges are a plane ride away. He has decided to only visit his family this spring break. I understand that that is valid but I can’t help but feel a bit hurt and mad. When we get those few weeks/months together, he spends it with his family as well, so I always get the least amount of time… [read more]
How to Not Fear Cheating
Dear Miss U,
I have been in a LDR for 1 year and 3 months and I think I am anxious. I mean, I often think, “What if he would cheat on me?” I am very scared. What should I do to get rid of this anxiety? I think he’s a good guy, but I don’t know him 100% and you know… you can never be sure of someone. What should I do to stop worrying? I tried to stop thinking about it, but it doesn’t work… [read more]