Dear Miss U,

I have known my friend Sam for about 4 months now, and I really like her as more than a friend. She is beautiful, kind, and has a great sense of humor. I moved out of state about a month ago, and although I wish I had told her how I felt sooner, I originally thought it wold be better that way, as I didn’t know when I would see her again, and I felt that even if she did like me it would be unfair to ask her for an LDR right away. However, we’ve kept in touch and it seems like she’s interested in having a relationship with me beyond friendship. I’ve come to realize that if she wants to have a relationship, it should be her decision about whether she is ok with an LDR or not, but I’m still scared to tell her… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
In the beginning it was great and he seem really sweet and so nice and caring. We talked here and there, and be text morning and day and night. But sometime it was hard because he works 2 jobs, and every time he gets home he is so tired. But once in a week or so, we Skype and talk or he will call and we just talk. But sometime when we talk he won’t tell me a lot of things personal wise. I have ask him if he trust me and he says he does and I try not to bug him about why he don’t like to tell certain things, I just let it go. Now he is moving here to be with me soon and I can’t wait. But I am just worried about him telling me all about him and trusting him to open up to me with everything…[read more]

Dear Miss U,
Today was my first month with my boyfriend. We have been through a lot to be together before even dating. So although it might sound cheesy for some I was really excited about today. He is usually very sweet and caring so I thought he was gonna remember the date but he didn’t. Anyway I didn’t remind him of the date either but still sent him a cute message sharing my feelings. Among the words I said I mention that “I never thought I was gonna love you this way, I truly feel you are the guy I have loved and cared about the most” so then he replied and he told me “I should take it easy and control myself” and it really hurt me because all I doing was being sweet with him… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
My Ex and I broke up almost a year ago. Since then he has found out that I am in a new relationship with someone whom is 13 years younger than him. He keeps sending me messages of snap shots of my current BF’s FB page and saying mocking things about him. He also starts to send me pictures of him and I and certain things he knows I like and places that we have been together. When I ask him to stop, his response is, “Is this how you treat someone you love?” [read more]

Dear Miss U,
I live in New York and my significant other lives in the southern base of Florida. We have been dating for almost a year and everything is going well except we’ve been arguing a lot due to a lot of issues we are facing. Now, I have known about these certain issues since before we started dating, about two years ago to be exact when we were nothing but friends, but now I can’t help but feel neglected at times because I feel like he just isn’t caring about me or my feelings…[read more]

Dear Miss U,
My SO and I have been together a little over 18 months and we have talked about our wishes to be together someday, but when it comes to actually making plans for it to happen he shuts down and changes the subject. I confronted him about this a couple of times and he has said things like he does want to be together and he is sure it will happen or he doesn’t want to plan it out because he is afraid of being disappointed. I have tried to be understanding, it’s just that not having a real plan makes me feel insecure. I sometimes doubt his level of commitment to our future…[read more]

Dear Miss U,
I am situated in Vienna. I got to know a boy from USA.
He started to chat with me via Tinder. He texted that he will come to Vienna for vacation and wanted to meet for a drink. I thought, the best that could happen is a holiday fling. We met and went to a bar. He was so pretty and so likeable. every time he went to the bar to get us a drink he looked at me with this wicked glance…[read more]

Dear Miss U,
I have been dating for 10 months and it has been completely long distance and now that we are approaching a year we are trying to figure out how to move to the same city. He is more than willing to make the move to me however when we started dating I had begun a job search because I wanted to live somewhere else. For this reason he said he would wait until I got the job I applied for so we can make moves. I just found out that I did not get the job…[read more]