Moving Forward

Dear Miss U,
I am having a few small issues. My LDGF of several years is nervous of meeting, part of her wishes it for the most, but part of her is terrified. She lives in England and I live in the US but I am studying abroad in England starting this September. This May, we planned a visit to see each other before hand, and now I am also visiting to scope out universities. The thing is she’s still scared, I hoped as we got closer she’d overwhelmingly be more excited over being more nervous.

Uncertainty

Dear Miss U,
I met my girlfriend online about three months ago and we fell for each other pretty quickly. We live about four hours apart by car if it’s at all helpful or important. But basically she and I really want to see each other and our parents both know about our relationship, however her step-dad doesn’t know about me and her mom said that we can’t see each other until she tells him.

What You Make Of It

Dear Miss U,
Do you ever feel like you’ve forgotten your partner after you’ve been apart for a few months? My boyfriend lives in CA, USA while I live in England, so we see each other when we can but there’s often long breaks in between. During these breaks I can become quite depressed, but we get through it as a team.

Trust & Expectations

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We met while I was on an exchange in his country. Since I came back to mine we are on a long distance relationship. It’s really hard some days but I think we are not doing too badly.

I Do? Maybe…?

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend is going to bootcamp this summer, now most will claim that we are far to young to “need” each other, but our recruiter told my S.O that in order for me to be able to come with him I would need to be married to him if we wanted to live together. I am only 18 years old by almost two months, I love him but I am scared that if I marry him this early on into the relationship that we could end in divorce.

Simple Answers

Dear Miss U,
I’m in a relationship since 6 years now, and nothing has really changed… Kinda. Well, the problem is that I feel like I’m living just to wait him. Let me explain: I love him, a lot, but at the same time I’d like to find a job or something to do while he is studying at University, because I feel very frustrated being 100% every day at home without doing anything! I feel like I’m completely wasting my time…

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Count Your Blessings

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I live in different states over the summer but are together at University. So, we already have some LDR experience with having summers apart. We have great times when we visit in the summer, but after the 4 months being apart gets really hard and stressful, especially for me, because I get frustrated with the distance.

Say NO to Mom-guilt.

Dear Miss U,
I have been in a long distance relationship which took a 1 year break between the 4-5 year currently was/is going to be 6 years. He is in P.R and I am in NYC. I knew he was leaving and had plans to become a cop in P.R so for me it was a summer fling. He was persistent and won me over through emails webcams texts phone calls.

Now And In The Future

Dear Miss U,
Are we too young to keep a LDR? Please don’t ignore me because of my age. I need to know because I love him and my parents don’t know. I try to hint it to them but they don’t understand.