Closing the Distance Planning

Dear Miss U,

My girlfriend and I met in the states and have been together ever since. She has since gone back to England and we are now navigating the visa situation to allow one of us to make the big move. But she is freaking out, constantly questioning…

How to Communicate

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend and I have not been talking as often and were always fighting. During the disagreements a lot of things go unsaid due to the fact we don’t like arguing so we avoid it. My boyfriend also tends to be…

Together or… Not?

Hi
I am Sam and my boyfriend is Brad. He lives 1800 miles away in Washington State. We’ve been best friends and in a relationship for almost a year and six months. Lately, we have been having issues…

Timelines & U

Dear Miss U,
How do you keep going and try to smile when he’s not here I sat and watched him beg me not to make him go as he cried and I cried and I cant message him or webcam him and he is all the way in Italy while I’m in KY I have no doubt that we will make it I just want to know how can I smile when…

Insecurity, Infidelity & U

Dear Miss U,

I met my boyfriend over the internet a little over a year ago we talked every day and soon discovered we had feelings for each other and as time went on, they grew. I know it’s silly to a lot of people for someone so young to say this, but I am really in love with him. Despite the distance and despite never talking to each other in person we’re both in love. The problem is, I’m horribly insecure…

Dating, Sex & U

Dear Miss U,

I’m 22, college student, and still single. I think that makes me a little desperate. So, one day I accidentally wrote a message to this unknown lady on facebook, I got positive reply, and after a week messaging each other from facebook, I got her number and asked her out at once. And, a miracle, she agrees…

Time to talk & U

Dear Miss U,
My girlfriend and I started dating our senior year of high school, after we had decided on separate colleges, but we both knew we were going to keep dating despite the distance. Two years went by, with us forgoing social lives in exchange for spending on average 8 hours a day “with” each other (video chatting, mostly). In our third year of long distance, we realized that we needed other friends…

Their Work Affects U

Dear Miss U,

My girlfriend works entertainment on a cruise line. It was her dream to work on a cruise ship and she finally got the audition and the job for 1 contract. We have done the distance thing now and it is coming up on her time to come back. She is now asking should she put yes on “to be considered for future contracts” on her end-of-contract paperwork…

A Year & U

Dear Miss U,
Here’s my situation -I live in a household with a Dad, Mom, and two little brothers. My parents are the type who have “no girlfriend” rules. I’ve already tried talking with them about it–hoping to come to a compromise–but it didn’t work…

Communication & U

Dear Miss U,
We’ve been together for a little over a year now. We live 2,300 miles apart. I’m still at home with my parents and he lives with a roommate. He was just home for ten days for Christmas and left on Christmas eve. Hardest thing ever. But him being home made me realize I can’t do this another year…